| Location | Hillingdon |
| Age | 51 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1955 |
| Date of Death | 8/2006 |
| Visitors | 5,699 since 14/02/2007 |
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BOB BLACKSTONE - Such a Wonderful Man. Sadly passed away on the 19th August 2006.
He had just had his 51st birthday on July 22nd. He was diagnosed with Lung Cancer which had spread
to his brain. Bob was a Police Officer serving in the Met for 30 years. He served at Hayes Police
Station before going on to become a detective..He began riding a motorbike and went on to be one of
the best undercover motorcylist's in the Met. He will be sadly missed by his family and
friends. Leaving behind his wife, children and grandchildren.
We had only 10 weeks from diagnosis, such a very short time to try and understand what was happening
let alone begin to accept it all. Bob was such a Wonderful Husband, Dad, Grandad, Brother, Son,
Uncle and friend and was taken away from us much too soon. We all love and miss him so very much.
We miss you so much Dad...Keep looking after Mum
We love You x x x x
God saw you getting tired,
a cure was not meant to be.
so he put his arms around you,
and whispered 'come with me'.
with broken hearts we loved you,
as we watched you pass away.
although we loved you dearly,
we could not make you stay.
your golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands at rest.
god took you up to heaven,
to prove he only takes the best.
Bob was my best friend in the whole world. He was my happiness, my smile, my warmth in life. My best
friend, my soulmate. He would do anything for me. I was his princess. He adored me and I adored
him. He was happy, if I was happy. We knew that we had a special relationship. One that was envied
by many. We would always thank God for all the good things we had in life, we knew we were lucky, we
never took that for granted.
Bob was taken away from us so quickly, we hardly had time to come to terms with his illness, before
he closed his eyes and said goodbye.
The light in my life has gone out and in its place there is a deep, deep sadness. Bob was one in
million, quiet, undemanding, strong and fair. He was generous and caring and always there to lend a
helping hand when called upon. I will miss him forever. I will love him for eternity. My life will
never be the same without him.
All My Love .... from Your Poppet X X X
Christmas In Heaven
I see the countless Christmas Trees around the world below,
with tiny lights, like heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear,
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear,
but the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
for it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me. I see the pain inside your heart,
but I am not so far away. We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me dear ones. You know I hold you dear,
and be glad I'm spending Christmas, with Jesus Christ this year.
I send you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.
I send you each a memory of, my undying love.
After all 'LOVE' is the gift, more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do,
for I can't count the blessing or love he has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear,
Remember, I'm spending Christmas, with Jesus Christ this year.
When you are sad,
I will dry your tears.
When you are scared,
I will comfort your fears.
When you are worried,
I will give you hope.
When you are confused,
I will help you cope.
And when you are lost,
And can't see the light.
I shall be your beacon
Shining ever so bright
This is my oath.
I pledge till the end.
Why you may ask?
Because you're my friend.
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~MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR~
~Lots of Love Always~
Hello My Forever
how are things in heaven...must be better than here. I feel you watching me Bob...am I doing it right ? I go thro each day, sometimes I cry, sometimes I laugh, but every time you are there at the forefront of my thoughts.
I know I need to put one foot in front of the other...I know I need to move on...how do I do that without leaving you behind ? I don't want to leave you behind, I want you with me, I miss you with all my heart. I go about my days thinking of how much I want you back...yet I know you are never coming back...I wonder where you are, are you happy, will I ever see you again, will you know me.
Please help me Bob...to move forward and be me again. I miss me, I miss us.
Forever and Always yours
Your Poppet x x x x Rita
hi
Rita,hello hun how you doing? This is just a qiuck note to tell ya am thinking bout you & sending you happy thoughts, im so sorry for your loss of your lovely bob i know its really hard for you, losing someone who you thought you would grow old & wrinkly with its like wot we supposed to do now! i think a little bit of us die with them how we supposed to just live our life with out them? Betty helps me alot and that i know that rob wouldnt want us to sit and cry everyday for the rest of our life, but to love and remember him everyday of our life.. i know that just isn't good enough, if you eva want to talk Rita please get in touch.
Love Kat xx
With love
You touched our hearts immensely,
You lit our souls up bright,
But then God called back his angel,
He wanted another star at night.
He called your name so silently,
So only you could hear,
He wrapped you in a blanket,
And whispered in your ear.
Robert I am holding you,
With me you will come home,
Don't fear for those you leave behind,
They'll never be alone'
And so everyday you visit,
You spread your peace and love,
To all those here who loved you,
Where for them you wait above.
Merry Christmas From Heaven
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I still hear the songs, I still see the lights
I still feel the love, on cold wintry nights
I still share your hopes, and all of your cares
I'll even remind you, to please say your prayers
I just want to tell you, you still make me proud
You stand head and shoulders, above all the crowd
Keep trying each moment, to stay in His grace
I came here before you, to help set your place
You don't have to be perfect all of the time
He forgives you the slip, if you continue the climb
To my family and friends, please be thankful today
I'm still close beside you, in a new special way
I love you all dearly, now don't shed a tear
Cause I'm spending my Christmas with Jesus this year
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Dad.... I've not been on for a while, I miss you so so much. What a strange life it is without you here.
It's Kieran's birthday tomorrow .... 20 years old! .... I'll give him a big hug for you.
It's also beautiful Naomi's 20th birthday tomorow Dad. As she is up there with you ...will you find her .... give her a big hug from her mum and dad, and from her brother and sister. I know they'll appreciate knowing she has someone to shimmy with!
Forever thinking of you Dad.... I love and miss you with all my heart
Sarah x xx x
Take care dear rita xxxxxxxxx
Trusted Friend*
Have you ever had the feeling
That you need someone to care?
Someone to put his arms around you
Knowing theyre always there.
Have you ever reached out
Only to find no one there?
Feelings that leaves one in dark despair
A lonely feeling, to much for you to bear.
Have you ever felt the need
To just just give up on life?
Your world so full of darkness
Not able to see the light
In my final hour of darkness
That's when you stepped in
You're that ray of light I needed
My true and trusted friend.
Helping me to realize
You were always there for me
Barely able to cope, in a cloud of fog
So thick I couldn't see.
You are my ray of sunshine
My star on the darkest night
You've helped me to believe again
That soon will come the light.
So thankful for your friendship
Though others may not see
Just how very special
Your friendship is to me.
Though we may be miles apart
Even with the distance
It's what's in our hearts
If ever you're in need, I'm always here
Helping you make it through
Lifes heartaches and fears.
Dear Friend
How are you? I just had to send a note to tell you how much I care about you. Saw you yesterday as you were talking with your friends. I waited all day hoping you would want to talk to me too. I gave you a sunset to close your day and a cool breeze to rest you.. and I waited, but you did not come.......
It hurt me... but I still love you because I am your friend. I saw you sleeping last night and longed to touch your brow, so I spilled the moonlight upon your face. Again I waited, wanting to rush down so we could talk. I have so many gifts for you! You awoke and rushed off to work. My tears were in the rain...............
If you would only listen to ME! I love you! I try to tell you in blue skies and in the quiet green grass. I whisper it in leaves on the trees and breathe it in colors of flowers, shouted it to you in mountain streams, give the birds love songs to sing. I clothe you with warm sunshine and perfume the air with nature scents. My love for you is deeper than the ocean and bigger than the biggest need in your heart!
Ask me! Talk with me! Please don't forget me. I have so much to share with you! I won't hassle you any further. It is YOUR decision. I have chosen you and I will wait--I love you...
Your friend,
Jesus
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